You can ask any person who has ever been a patient in the hospital, or had a family member in the hospital: You want your nurse to be serious. All good. I loved 1975-2018 working in the hospital. Being part of multi-discipline teams, bringing serious care, nursing skill, clinical expertise and with my mentors support; loving awareness and compassion in action. For my own stress management having fun, being creative (like this website) and being with people has helped me have the full experience of life. So I will gather a few pictures, videos, creative writing and in my big world view share a meditation on fun.
In 1981, I did a 5 day Zen Sesshin with Sazaki Roshi, (this was not fun). There was a jikijitsu, a trained student, in the meditation hall who used a stick, if you were nodding off, or seemed to need some energy during the formal sitting practice. I sat very still and alert the whole time he walked around. After the retreat I felt inspired by my experience to write a poem about death. I sent a copy to my friend Stephen Levine, and he sent back this post card response. Fun city! Instructions on where to go on the Path of Death when leaving the body. When I learned Stephen had passed, I heard his voice in my Heart repeating, “Deathless.”